Wake Up My Dear Friends

A friend of ours (2 actually) has been involved in an affair with a married man and although it has been going on for quite some time and we all knew about it, we try to keep things down because they're both our friends. Well, although we know its really none of our business to comment anything but sometimes its really hard for a person to cover things up especially when people start noticing and start asking questions.

Now, problem is when too many people knows about it and start asking questions, somehow sooner or later the truth is gonna get out and when it does, things are gonna get ugly and lots of people are gonna get hurt.

According to Dr. Phil, having an affair with a married man is bound to spell doom in the long run eventually. Here's what he said:

It's time to move forward.
If you're putting your life on hold for a married man, he's stolen not only your heart - he's stolen your brain!

No matter how you justify it, you are attacking his family unit.
Even he is separated from his wife, that is their business and you are a threat to their marriage. You aren't welcome and you don't belong.

You may feel that he's your soul mate, but think again.
A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines. He wouldn't allow it, let alone entice it.

Keep in mind that you only know what he tells you.
You already know that he's a liar because he's living a lie with his wife and children. How can you be sure whether you're the only "other women" he has? Entertain the possibility that he is lying to you, and you are being used.

Think of his wife.
Is it fair to her? She's been married with him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the 'damn dailies', then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new and exciting and fun. You are intruding upon her turf. You are a trespasser. It is no different than being a thief at night. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing things.

Even if your married man decided to leave his wife and family for you, that doesn't gurantee success.
Relationships born out of affairs survive less then 5 percent of the time. If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. If he's living this deception with you today, how could you ever trust him if you did get in to a legitimate relationship with him?

Break off the relationship today.
You'll hurt, you'll feel broken hearted but you'll be better off. Take some time to get really clear with yourself about who you are and what you want. The most important relationship you'll ever have in this world is the one you have yourself. And eventually, you'll fall in love again - with someone who's willing to make you first in his life.

Wake up my dear friends, karma is a bitch. Eventually it'll get back at us one fine day without us realizing it. Karma always has its way at getting back at a person. Deep down in your heart, you know it better then anyone it's not going be a happy ending and you'll eventually go back to where you started off with nothing.

Having a fling with another man when you're both not married is one thing, but getting yourself attached to a married man is low. Don't trash yourself like that and have others to lose respect for you too. Give yourself some respect and dignity, and you'll be a better person eventually. Well, but again its your call.

人在做，天在看。不要一错再错了，回头是岸。We wish you all the best!

Choices & Consequences

So hello there..i hope nobody faints from the pleasure of seeing my entry *perasan* i have every right to be a bit narcisstic seeing i haven't written in here for a longggg while..i think i deserved to be missed even its just from my dearest korz who have been consistently asking me to write :P

Anyway, i have a slight dilemma..being broke often leads to a minimum wage to buy everything u like to maximise your satisfaction. Now, if i had enough money..to buy one of the three things i have before me..which do i pick? how do i choose? can i be really sure that i would not make the wrong decision by buying something only to realise in a few days..i forego something i would rather have?

The three things are basically..something i really like, something i can make the most use of and something that can always cheer me up. It somehow doesn't strike me as an easy decision..i love colourful bright-litted things..so i could buy a flashy new toy that sparkles my interest everyday. I can get a toothbrush..which is free and available for my use 3-4 times daily though it would wear out one day. Or lastly, i could buy Jay's latest CD which haven't even been released and i would be happy everyday listening n learning his new songs. So how do i pick? Yess..these are all just hypothetical..my life dilemmas aren't as pathetic as shopping..

In my life, i have never been given a chance to truly be in love with a person i really liked in the first place.. i was starting to think it was a curse. Having given such a long thought to it now..i realised maybe it was always a blessing in disguise. It's tough..it's rough..it's a yucky job to have a crush on someone and wait endlessly if the other person feels the same way u do. I was always given the opportunity to be liked and learn to love another along the grace of time. I would say it's not a bad thing to be loved more than u love but i guess humans are always curious to know what lies on the other side.

Well..after a long thought..and after a long time trying, i've decided that i'll be old and gray before i can actually find what it's like to be on the other side. Firstly, cos i'm a girl, conservative, it's probably never going to happen for someone like me. I bet korz is rolling his eyes. Since it's not a bad thing being on the receiving end to be loved first, i believe i can let go and let myself be swept off in a sweet surrender :) I may one day regret and believe i should've waited for someone i really liked but i believe once i'm able to develop true feelings..it conquers everything..including minor crushes and infatuation ^^

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Fish Therapy Anyone?

There are many types and forms of therapy such as aroma therapy, group therapies, music therapy, sex therapy and of course fish therapy.

Well, the concept of a fish spa has been around for quite some time. I have no concrete source to justify my postings about the history so please take it as it is and make up your own mind.

Fish therapy goes way back 100 years where it was originated from Turkey. The Turks used them as a form of therapy for skin where the fishes would nibble on your skin and the suction would take off any flaky old and dead cells of the skin. It is also claimed that this process would alleviate the beauty of a person and adding smoothness to our skins, while the nibbling helps us to relax our mind.

The scientific name for this type of fish is Garra Rufa, which I hope you'll think of me as a very knowledgeable person now since I'm able to spell it! *applause clap clap*

Anyway, I was shopping in 1Utama yesterday with Angeline and we bought the tickets to the movie The Mummy 2 so while we were waiting for Kevin and Suet Loo to turn up for dinner we decided to drop by the fish spa at Foot Master to give the fish therapy a try.

Now, I just want to share with you that if you have very sensitive feet then you might want to think twice before considering dipping your feet in to a pool full of fishes because it can be very ticklish.

Mmm, it feels good to know that you're actually so popular amongst fishes

The look of a coward *LOL*


Testing the water


Yeah trust me, it isn't what you think. She's just being really sensitive down there :P

In the last picture, instead of being scared to death one could almost mistaken that she could be actually experiencing a mind blowing orgasm! Well, judging by the way she's holding to the side of the pool you could tell that it feels very ticklish to people who has sensitive feet.

Well, lucky for me now that I know she's sensitive down there.....I don't have to work so hard at night anymore hehehe! *grin*

To change the topic altogether, yes there are women in this world who could achieve orgasm by just stimulating their feet. Well, I will report back to everyone after I try it out tonight :D

And to link sea animals and orgasm together since we're talking about fishes here, do you know that dolphins are actually capable of experiencing orgasm during sex?

I came across these 2 sites namely "How to fuck a dolphin" and "Swimmer escapes rape by dolphin" which I find it to be rather interesting and amusing.

Now, I am not in anyway encouraging anyone to go fuck a dolphin nor to get raped by one. In fact, don't do it. It's really a sick thing okay. I just never thought that dolphins can be such sexual animals too.

Oh please just leave those poor dolphins alone.